The idea of expanding marriage to include homosexual relationships is on the forefront of society’s conversation about what it wants to be. As a Lutheran Christian pastor, I cannot simply ignore the public conversation. This is a seismic shift in society. I share my thoughts as a step in my ongoing contemplation of the integration of my personal faith and my role as a citizen in the United States of America.
AS A LUTHERAN PASTOR, I STAND BY THE TRADITIONAL BIBLICAL CHRISTIAN VIEW OF MARRIAGE
Let me begin by saying that I remain convinced that God’s design for marriage is a life-long covenantal relationship between one man and one woman based in love and providing an earthly reflection of the relationship between Christ and the church. Were anyone to ask me what the Bible says about homosexual marriage, I would answer confidently that the scriptures indicate than God’s design for marriage is monogamous, heterosexual and deeply sacrificial toward one’s spouse. Jesus indicated this when he preached against divorce in Mark 10:1-10 saying that God’s design was one man married to one woman and no divorce. However, before I answered this question I would include the caveat that I am often shown how my own life does not live up to God’s designs when I read the Bible.
I find it very difficult to make a case from the Bible for anything but the traditional covenantal heterosexual view of marriage without taking a hatchet to the scriptures (some would disagree with me quite strongly). Because I am bound by my office as pastor to follow what I believe the scripture teaches, I could not officiate in good conscience a homosexual marriage ceremony. I do not say this without some pain because some of the people nearest to my heart are homosexual.
There. That’s out of the way. If someone wants to discuss with me the Christian theology of homosexuality, let’s talk some other time.
The question with which this essay is concerned is this: “How do the scriptures inform my attitudes and actions as Christian and a citizen of the United States of America, where we believe that all people are created with certain inalienable rights, among them life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness?”
FIRST, LET’S DISTINGUISH BETWEEN HOMOSEXUALITY AND PROMISCUITY
There are conflicting studies about promiscuity rates among homosexuals vs. heterosexuals. I can’t see how a discussion of promiscuity relates to a discussion of homosexual marriage. But if we consider promiscuity a factor, would the assumed high promiscuity rates among homosexuals be an argument for or against homosexual marriage?
PROCREATION-BASED ARGUMENTS AGAINST HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE ARE DIMINISHING
As recently as seventy-five years ago, procreation was a concern to be encouraged by the laws of the land because large segments of the population could be wiped out at any time through war or disease. Further, we needed more people to accomplish more work. While scientific advances haven’t completely eliminated these concerns, they have been drastically reduced from where they have been at any previous time in human history. As medical, farming and production technologies continue to improve, it is more and more difficult to reasonably argue that we need to encourage heterosexuality because we need a bunch more humans on the planet.
DISGUST IS NOT AN ARGUMENT
You might find the very idea of homosexual physical love so appalling, disgusting and unnatural that it ought to be banned from the face of the earth. However, I find cooked spinach appalling, disgusting and unnatural, so I think it ought to be banned from the face of the earth. Truly, I can’t stand the sight, smell, texture or taste of it and I cannot conceive of a normal, sensible person liking cooked spinach. Whose idea of disgusting is right? I think you take my point.
SLIPPERY SLOPE-BASED ARGUMENTS AGAINST HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE ARE GROUNDED IN THE FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
What if? That’s a slogan used to sell lotto tickets too! What about three people in a committed union? What about a woman and her cat? Yes, what if? But what if we brought forth on this continent a new country conceived in liberty? Could people rule themselves without a king? I think the “what if” argument is the closet door open in your room at night. There just might be a monster in there so let’s not take any chances.
That being said, the slippery slope is a real phenomenon. For instance, the social security number was established simply to maintain records of those working in jobs covered under the social security program. Over the years, the SSN as a tracking number (though not technically as an ID) has become widespread and it is now difficult to live without a SSN. (For instance, since 1983 you must have a SSN to open an interest-bearing bank account.)
So slippery-slope arguments need to be acknowledged but not taken as a given future condition.
CHRISTIANS SHOULD NOT ARGUE AGAINST HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE BASED ON THE BIBLE
The moment I argue society’s acceptance or rejection of homosexual marriage based on my faith, I am on dangerous ground. We do not want our government establishing a religion we want because, of course, they might later establish a religion we do not want. By seeking to impose on others a definition of marriage based on my faith, I am paving the way for someone else to impose legal restrictions on my behavior based on their faith. I certainly don’t want my wife to be forced to wear a burka because one day the majority of people in America believe that the burka is God’s highest design for women’s dress.
HOMOSEXUALITY (AND HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE) ARE NOT ETHICALLY EQUIVALENT TO OTHER THINGS THAT THE BIBLE DEFINES AS SINS
We do, indeed, make laws about what we as a society believe is right and wrong. However, the best and most solid laws have an ethical basis in the rights of each person involved in whatever situation is addressed by the law in question. Running a red light has ethical implications because it puts others at risk. Stealing is taking another’s property without legal authority or their consent. These can be argued from an ethical standpoint without relying on divine revelation regarding moral behavior. Homosexual relationships do not violate ethical principles that require respect of the other’s rights. Nobody is harmed or in other ways treated against their own will when two people of the same sex engage in a committed relationship of love and support that includes the sexual expression of that love.
A FAITH POINT: ENFORCED BEHAVIOR DOES NOT CHANGE THE HEART
Jesus reminded us that the restriction of outward behavior does not move the heart toward God. To paraphrase Jesus’ connection between adultery and lust in Matthew 5:27-28, “You’ve heard it said that a man shall not lie with another man as with a woman, but I tell you that if one man looks at another with lustful intent, he has already committed homosexuality in his heart.” So, even if homosexual marriage remains illegal, that law written and enforced will not change one person’s heart. It may even be counterproductive with respect to our task of drawing people toward the redeeming love of God.
IS THERE A “STATE’S INTEREST” IN MAINTAINING HETEROSEXUAL MARRIAGE OTHER THAN PROCREATION?
As I already mentioned, I think it’s dubious at this point in history to claim the procreative purpose of marriage as a “state’s interest” in preserving heterosexual marriage. One could argue that the heterosexual marriage relationship ought to retain its primacy simply because of the biological morphology and clear interdependence of the male and female genitalia of the human species. (Arguments do sound better with big words, don’t they?) In this argument, the state has an interest in preserving community notions of reality. The division of the human species into two genders, “male” and “female,” is a biological reality. One could make a case that society in general has an interest in maintaining a legal system based on clearly observable physical – one might even say, “scientific” – reality and ought, therefore, to preserve the primacy of male/female relationships. However, a society conceived in liberty must make room for people who do not hold to the “standard” view of life.
SOME LAWS OUGHT TO CONCERN US BECAUSE OF ETHICS
The scriptures clearly speak for justice in the courts, care for the poor, fighting against the abuse of the powerless by the powerful. While these can be argued ethically without reference to divine revelation, there is alignment between the scriptures and widely acknowledged ethical principles. As those called by God’s grace into his kingdom, we have a double- duty to speak to and act on these issues as citizen-legislators in a free society and as Christians who operate out of love for our fellow people.
A CHRISTIAN MIGHT BE IN FAVOR OF LEGALIZING HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF THE LAW OF LOVE
Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” If I don’t want others seeking to enforce their morality on me (and I certainly don’t!), then by reciprocation, I ought not desire laws that enforce my morality on them.
A CHRISTIAN MIGHT BE IN FAVOR OF LEGALIZING HOMOSEXUAL MARRIAGE TO BE MORE LIKE GOD
God pays us the great honor of freedom. As Christ walked the earth, he spoke the truth in love. He wooed. He cajoled. He pleaded. But he never forced. If we are Christ’s ambassadors to the world, ought we spend any time or effort trying to enforce outward behavior that does not violate ethical principles, such as not harming others? We would be more like Christ if we displayed unconditional love for all, desiring the best for each person, proclaiming the God who loves us and has reconciled us to himself by the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. Of course we call people to repentance. But we don’t try to force them (we can’t, really, anyway). Then as God touches their hearts (after all no one can come to Christ unless the Father draws him [John 6:44]) let the Holy Spirit do its work through the means of grace.
WHAT, THEN, IS A CHRISTIAN WHO BELIEVES IN TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE TO DO AS A CITIZEN OF A COUNTRY FOUNDED ON LIBERTY, SUCH AS THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA?
Politics is the art of compromise and civilization is the process of being civil with those you with whom you disagree — people of different backgrounds and beliefs living together peaceably. If we ought not encode our moral views in the laws of our land unless they can be argued ethically without recourse to divine revelation, what do we who love everyone and desire that all come to Christ do with the thorny societal issue of homosexual marriage?
What if we could trade homosexual marriage for a repeal of no-fault divorce laws? In my opinion, no-fault divorce laws have done more damage to the institution of marriage than legalizing homosexual marriage would. Divorce is a breach of contract. Yet in the unique instance of divorce, our courts choose not to consider who broke the contract or use the idea of fault in disposing of marital assets, deciding child custody, etc. The dissolution of a marriage has become a non-event. Would you trade the strengthening of the marriage institution for the broadening of the laws about who can marry whom?
Under current laws in most states, it is time-consuming and complicated to formulate a legal relationship with another person of the same sex that equates to marriage. Furthermore, homosexual couples who enter into this multileveled contractual arrangement that approximates marriage have to defend and substantiate their relationship while heterosexual couples claiming that relationship don’t. This affects things like access to a partner in emergency circumstances (think ICU), inheritance, etc. Can you imagine a homosexual couple at a time when one is in ICU, possibly at death’s door, and his or her partner of 20 years is not allowed visitation because he or she is not “family”? How can that be right, loving or compassionate?
You may not think homosexuality is right, but isn’t it better as a society to encourage people to live in committed relationships, even if you don’t agree with the morality of those relationships?
As I consider the subject of homosexual marriage, I come to the following thoughts and conclusions.
• Society does have a stake in promoting long-term stable relationships. People are more productive, peaceful, healthy, happy, etc. when they are in long-term committed relationships. The statistics on heterosexual marriage are clear and I assume that similar results would be found if and when long, committed homosexual relationships are studied.
• For a biblically conservative Christian, homosexual marriage will never be the moral equivalent of heterosexual marriage. But heterosexual marriages often don’t reflect the character of God’s love for us in Jesus Christ, either.
• Our job as Christians is not to create the kingdom of God on earth as we see it through the force of law. Our job is to share the good news that through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting people’s sins against them and to urge people to repent — turn to God in the grace offered in Jesus Christ and seek to follow God’s ways through the power of the Holy Spirit.
• Laws do not change hearts.
• The love of a homosexual couple is every bit as real and compelling as the love of a heterosexual couple, even if conservative Christians see the homosexual aspect of that love as departing from God’s plan.
• While I think one man, one woman, monogamous marriage is God’s design, I don’t think homosexuality should be singled out as a special and unique form of ungodliness. I think it just feels more foreign to the average person than lust, greed or gluttony.
• The more homosexuals I know, the more it seems strange to call them that. In fact, it seems strange to define a person primarily by their sexual orientation over and above other attributes such as kind or generous (or not).
• Can’t I live in civil community with others who think differently I do without trying to enforce my values on them?
MY CONCLUSION AT THIS POINT IN MY JOURNEY…
My conclusion, at this moment, is that civil marriage and Christian marriage should become separate institutions. Even though I think homosexuality is a brokenness (acknowledging in the same breath that I, myself, am also full of brokenness), I fully support some sort of marriage relationship equivalent for homosexual couples. I think the best idea is to use the term “civil marriage,” because this reflects what we ought to be: civil toward each other. Let a justice of the peace or some other civil representative perform the ceremony of civil union/marriage/whatever and let pastors perform the ceremony of Christian marriage by which we seek to enter into that relationship that is, at its best, supposed to echo and reflect the love between Christ and the church.
That’s what I think at 3:56PM on December 11, 2012
Tuesday, December 11, 2012
Saturday, December 1, 2012
Parade: epilogue
This morning I woke earlier than my early alarm was set for. That's pretty natural for me when a big event is happening. I was late leaving the house. I thought the YMCA (where some of our sound equipment is stored because that's where we meet for church) opened at 7 a.m., so when I arrived there at 7:40 (20 minutes behind schedule) and found the doors locked, I was "surprised." Turns out the Y opens at 8 a.m. on Saturday mornings! Yikes! But someone let us in to get our stuff. As I was rifling through our sound equipment, I could not find the extra microphones and cords I was looking for. That's when I remembered that we moved all the extra mics to our storage garage a few miles away in the opposite direction of the parade that I intended to be at by 8 a.m. (The parade route is at least 25 minutes from the Y.). So I drove to the storage garage to get the extra mics (getting further behind schedule). Earlier in the morning, I had remembered that the power supply and sustain pedal for the keyboard were in a cabinet that John B. was working on, so as I headed to to the storage garage, I called John B. to see if I could stop by to get the stuff that was in the cabinet he took. He told me... wait for it... he returned the cabinet to the YMCA! I just didn't see it there. So, after I got the mics out of the storage garage, I headed back to the YMCA to get the power supply and sustain pedal for the keyboard. Then I realized that I had forgotten to bring some folding chairs. So I called John B. back and he met me en route to the parade with a couple of folding chairs.
Meanwhile, I had told everyone that I would be there at 8 a.m. and they should show up at 8:30 a.m. because I didn't know how long the registration would take. My great team showed up anywhere from very early to on time. I didn't arrive until 8:50 a.m. (sorry, team!)
We set up a full band's worth of equipment on the trailer: keyboard, full drum set, mics, guitars, etc. Everything went pretty well until we discovered we didn't have a power cord for one of the speakers. Oh, well.
It all came together in the end. The music went well. We all dressed Hawaiian style (the theme of the parade was "Christmas Vacation.") We had banners on the side of our truck promoting our Christmas Eve Candlelight Service. We even improv'd some music along the way. And we all had a great time.
Public thanks in no particular order to Mathew, Melanie, Megan and Macy Trout, John, Zach and Zoe Gerbi, Todd and Jan Purcell, Tina Lovelace, Parker Lovelace, Anya and Lilia Rallison. And thanks to Merle Kroepllin for loaning us the trailer and Dale Nichols for loaning us the truck.
Meanwhile, I had told everyone that I would be there at 8 a.m. and they should show up at 8:30 a.m. because I didn't know how long the registration would take. My great team showed up anywhere from very early to on time. I didn't arrive until 8:50 a.m. (sorry, team!)
We set up a full band's worth of equipment on the trailer: keyboard, full drum set, mics, guitars, etc. Everything went pretty well until we discovered we didn't have a power cord for one of the speakers. Oh, well.
It all came together in the end. The music went well. We all dressed Hawaiian style (the theme of the parade was "Christmas Vacation.") We had banners on the side of our truck promoting our Christmas Eve Candlelight Service. We even improv'd some music along the way. And we all had a great time.
Public thanks in no particular order to Mathew, Melanie, Megan and Macy Trout, John, Zach and Zoe Gerbi, Todd and Jan Purcell, Tina Lovelace, Parker Lovelace, Anya and Lilia Rallison. And thanks to Merle Kroepllin for loaning us the trailer and Dale Nichols for loaning us the truck.
Friday, November 30, 2012
"I am nervous about the parade tomorrow"
"I am nervous about the parade tomorrow." I said this to myself, to my wife, and now I am saying to to you.
The Journey of Life worship band is going to be riding a flatbed trailer tomorrow morning in the St. Cloud Christmas parade. We will be singing the songs that we are going to be singing at our Christmas Eve candlelight service. I know it's going to be great fun, but I am nervous. I've never done anything like this before. Things are kinda coming together at the last minute. So I am nervous.
That is the point of this blog post. Not my nervousness, but my naming my nervousness and sharing it authentically with others (like you!).
There can be a temptation for a leader to hide his or her nervousness, to stand up and charge forward like the future can be predicted and everything is under control. Well, the future cannot be predicted with certainty — only probability — and not everything is even within my sphere of control. So I'm feeling rather vulnerable as we prepare for the parade tomorrow.
Having read and listened to some of Brené Brown's work recently (her blog is ordinarycourage.com), I thought I'd try on admitting vulnerability and nervousness rather than simply hiding behind a stoic facade, just to see what it feels like. A little earlier today I said to myself, "Man, I sure feel nervous about tomorrow." When I arrived home this evening, my wife asked me how I was feeling and I said, "You know, I'm feeling quite nervous about tomorrow." Not that I'm running away or anything like that. But I decided to be courageous and openly admit what I was really feeling.
You know what? It feels pretty good. It feels right. It feels true. It feels like I'm letting people know me instead of presenting them an airbrushed cardboard cutout of some idea of who I think I ought to be and then worrying about what other people think while I try to maintain the false image I project.
Here's what I experienced:
Admitting my nervousness to myself somehow reduces its power over me. When I openly admitted to myself, "Man, I am nervous about tomorrow," instead of simply trying not to be nervous, somehow my nervousness changed character. It was like it moved from my heart out to my skin. I am still nervous, but the feelings of fight, freeze or flight that accompany anxiety in varying intensities moved away from me. It was definitely good to say intentionally, "Man, I am nervous," instead of saying subtly to myself, "Man, I've got to stop being so nervous."
Admitting my nervousness and feelings of vulnerability creates space to share another feeling I am feeling: confidence. I don't know exactly what tomorrow will hold, but I am confident that as the worship band works together, we will handle whatever happens in the morning with grace and good humor. Our worship band is full of great people! I am also confident that God causes all things to work together for those who love him and are called according to his purposes. So even if we totally crash and burn, that doesn't mean God's purposes won't prevail, which is the point anyway.
Sharing my nervousness with my wife also created the opportunity for her to show love to me, which she has done wonderfully from a glass of red wine, to dinner, to three Oreos in a bowl even as I write this. The courage of honest interaction made a place for our relationship to grow.
Having the courage to own, name and share my nervousness today lessened my own anxiety, allowed me to express confidence in my team and my God, and created a space for love to to be practiced in my marriage. My prideful spirit isn't too excited about being vulnerable by sharing my nervousness, but look at all the good that comes from it!
So, I am feeling nervous, vulnerable, excited and confident about the parade tomorrow. I sure hope the sound system works like it did when I tested it!
The Journey of Life worship band is going to be riding a flatbed trailer tomorrow morning in the St. Cloud Christmas parade. We will be singing the songs that we are going to be singing at our Christmas Eve candlelight service. I know it's going to be great fun, but I am nervous. I've never done anything like this before. Things are kinda coming together at the last minute. So I am nervous.
That is the point of this blog post. Not my nervousness, but my naming my nervousness and sharing it authentically with others (like you!).
There can be a temptation for a leader to hide his or her nervousness, to stand up and charge forward like the future can be predicted and everything is under control. Well, the future cannot be predicted with certainty — only probability — and not everything is even within my sphere of control. So I'm feeling rather vulnerable as we prepare for the parade tomorrow.
Having read and listened to some of Brené Brown's work recently (her blog is ordinarycourage.com), I thought I'd try on admitting vulnerability and nervousness rather than simply hiding behind a stoic facade, just to see what it feels like. A little earlier today I said to myself, "Man, I sure feel nervous about tomorrow." When I arrived home this evening, my wife asked me how I was feeling and I said, "You know, I'm feeling quite nervous about tomorrow." Not that I'm running away or anything like that. But I decided to be courageous and openly admit what I was really feeling.
You know what? It feels pretty good. It feels right. It feels true. It feels like I'm letting people know me instead of presenting them an airbrushed cardboard cutout of some idea of who I think I ought to be and then worrying about what other people think while I try to maintain the false image I project.
Here's what I experienced:
Admitting my nervousness to myself somehow reduces its power over me. When I openly admitted to myself, "Man, I am nervous about tomorrow," instead of simply trying not to be nervous, somehow my nervousness changed character. It was like it moved from my heart out to my skin. I am still nervous, but the feelings of fight, freeze or flight that accompany anxiety in varying intensities moved away from me. It was definitely good to say intentionally, "Man, I am nervous," instead of saying subtly to myself, "Man, I've got to stop being so nervous."
Admitting my nervousness and feelings of vulnerability creates space to share another feeling I am feeling: confidence. I don't know exactly what tomorrow will hold, but I am confident that as the worship band works together, we will handle whatever happens in the morning with grace and good humor. Our worship band is full of great people! I am also confident that God causes all things to work together for those who love him and are called according to his purposes. So even if we totally crash and burn, that doesn't mean God's purposes won't prevail, which is the point anyway.
Sharing my nervousness with my wife also created the opportunity for her to show love to me, which she has done wonderfully from a glass of red wine, to dinner, to three Oreos in a bowl even as I write this. The courage of honest interaction made a place for our relationship to grow.
Having the courage to own, name and share my nervousness today lessened my own anxiety, allowed me to express confidence in my team and my God, and created a space for love to to be practiced in my marriage. My prideful spirit isn't too excited about being vulnerable by sharing my nervousness, but look at all the good that comes from it!
So, I am feeling nervous, vulnerable, excited and confident about the parade tomorrow. I sure hope the sound system works like it did when I tested it!
Monday, November 26, 2012
Thank you, OnBeing
I want to publicly thank Krista Tippett and OnBeing.org for posting the unedited
interviews that Krista conducts with her guests. I have two reasons for this
gratitude:
First, I really feel like I get to "know" the
guest a little better. I hear the banter, off-the-cuff remarks and extra
stories that don't make it into the produced one-hour radio version of the
interview. It is a richer experience for me.
Second, they don't edit out the technical difficulties. This
week's show with Brene Brown had a major technical issue right in the middle of
it. As a pastor who leads a weekly worship service that all-too-often suffers
some sort of glitch, it's liberating (and in a twisted way, even
encouraging) to get to listen in while pros try to solve unanticipated
malfunctions. Of course, the listener never hears the glitches on the produce show. That is part of the point of producing a finished show.
I recommend "OnBeing" to everyone. It's a thought-provoking and kind conversation about the big questions in life.
Emmanuel = Love
Merry Christmas! As we move into Advent and Christmas, we
celebrate the unfathomable mystery of Emmanuel, God with us, in Jesus Christ.
CHRISTMAS SHOWS GOD’S
LOVE
To those who will listen, creation speaks of God’s power and
creativity. Romans 1:20 (ESV), “For his invisible attributes, namely, his
eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the
creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without
excuse.” An awe-inspiring starry sky, a powerful waterfall, a living cell
performing its metabolic dance —these things tell us to seek their maker. This
is exactly what civilizations around the world have done throughout human
history.
But who is the maker? What is the maker like? What is our
relationship to the maker? That is where Jesus comes into the picture. Jesus,
the child whose birth we celebrate on Christmas day, “is the radiance of the
glory of God and the exact imprint of his nature…” (Hebrews 1:3)
This is Good News beyond the wildest hopes of humanity as
they seek God on their own. People who believe in one God typically imagine God
as an authority figure who must be satisfied (or manipulated) or a
disinterested creator who built a toy universe and now lets it play out just to
see what will happen (if he even cares).
The idea of God being most accurately represented by a baby
boy born to a poor girl and being laid in a feed trough because his family was
travelling when he was born is nearly unthinkable. To use a well-worn phrase,
it rocks our world. What does this mean that creator of our unfathomable
universe presents himself to us as a newborn child?
It means Love.
CHRISTMAS SHOWS GOD’S
LOVE FOR US
Our creator desires so much to be known to us — to be in
relationship with us — that he enters our world in our way, an infant. Surely
this is, to use another well-worn phrase, mind-blowing.
Consider what this means for you. For God so loved YOU that
he sent his only son… You are the object of radical, unstoppable love from God.
You meet God when you meet Jesus. Again, this is Good News beyond hope because
when we look at the life of Jesus, we see a man who was truthful and trustable,
desired the best for every person he met and, when push came to shove, was
willing to die in our place.
In Jesus, from the newborn babe in the manger to the
travelling rabbi to the man on the cross dying a criminal’s death, we see that
the core of the God who created the universe is Love.
In this broken world, the news that God’s heart is a heart
of Love is the best news that we could hope for. Gaze at the baby in the manger
and see the creator of the universe wrapped in swaddling clothes. Why on earth
would he do that?
The answer is Love for us.
WE LOVE OTHERS
BECAUSE GOD FIRST LOVED US
To contemplate the mystery of Emmanuel, God with us in Jesus
Christ, without response is unthinkable. How can one possibly consider what God
has done to be known by us and to reconcile us to himself and not be changed?
Christmas is a celebration of God’s sacrificial love. Our best response to the
inconceivable gift of the baby Jesus who grew to be Christ on the cross and the
risen Savior is to reflect his character to the rest of the world.
Our best response is Love for others.
Celebrate Christmas by practicing love!
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Chasing Turkeys
I was running after a
turkey down a long red hallway with lights on both walls every so often. Every
time I reached out my hands to grab the turkey, it eluded my grasp. As I ran,
the hallway stretched longer and longer. The lights flashed by as I ran ever
faster but never fast enough. I wanted, no needed, to catch that turkey. Suddenly
the hallway branched into many hallways and a turkey was running away down each
branch. I stared wildly from hallway to hallway trying frantically to decide
which turkey to chase. My eyes searched for some clue, some reason by which to
decide which turkey to chase. But all the hallways were the same. And it seemed
every time I looked there were more hallways with more turkeys. Panic grew
inside me. The turkeys — I needed to catch them all and I couldn’t even catch
one. I collapsed and began to weep. As I knelt sobbing, my tears collected
around me into a great puddle. The burden of my impossible duty crushed me
utterly, my sense of failure overwhelmed me and my despair was complete.
How long I sat in personal
darkness I cannot say. The water of my tears lapped about my legs and I looked
up. I was kneeling in the water on the gentle shore of a quiet pond. The sky
was clear blue. A delicate breeze lightly ruffled the surface of the water and
caused a barely perceptible waving among the trees. I felt a prickly sensation
all over my skin, almost an electric vibration. I’m sure it doesn’t sound so in
the telling but it was exceedingly pleasant. Quite suddenly I noticed that the
hopelessness of the hallway had fallen from me. The pleasant tingling continued
to lift me into peace.
“The turkeys,” I muttered.
From behind me, a voice at the same time sober and spirited, said, “Ah yes, the
turkeys.”
I stood and turned with a
start. A man was standing a few paces from the water’s edge, tranquil in his
bearing but filled with energy in his being. He was fully present with me but
his eyes were as deep as the universe and seemed to see everywhere at once. I
looked and saw dancing joy within him.
I stepped out of the water
and walked toward him. My legs were dry as though they had never been wet.
“Sir,” I said, “you know
of the turkeys?”
“I do,” said he.
“I needed to catch them
and could not,” said I.
“Needed?” said he. There
was a tinge of sorrow in his eyes, though the joy was never in danger from the
sorrow. Threads of joy ran even through the sorrow.
“I thought I needed to
catch the turkeys.”
“Yes, you did think that,
didn’t you?”
“Did I not?”
“No, my son.”
“Why were the turkeys
running?”
“So you could chase them.”
“And not catch them?”
“The turkeys were never to
be caught and kept as though yours. You were created for a joyful turkey chase!
Grabbing, clutching, feathers flying, falling, laughing, and jumping up to run
again!” His eyes lit up and he started laughing just thinking about the
spectacle!
His infectious joy set me laughing,
too, as I saw myself through his eyes chasing a wild, wing-flapping bird down
the hallway enjoying the chase rather than worrying about the catch.
We laughed in waves for
several minutes, trading verbal pictures of crazy turkey-chasing follies.
The laughter finally
subsided and I looked again into his eyes. “Then where did I get the idea that
I was supposed to catch and keep the turkey for my own?”
“Not from me.”
“Will I ever get the
chance to chase the turkey again, the way I was supposed to? To run down the
hallway and enjoy the chase for its own sake free of the burden of catching and
keeping?” I asked. Though I felt wistful that I might have missed a joyful
opportunity, it was impossible to be sad in this man’s presence.
“Can you trust me with
your chase? Are able to enjoy the crazy chase and not be caught up in catching
the turkey?”
Again, it was the eyes
that did the most work on me – inside of me, really. “Yes,” I said, “I am able.”
“Enjoy!” he said.
I felt the warmth of the
sun on my cheeks and opened my eyes to a beautiful Thanksgiving morning. The
smell of freshly brewing coffee drifted in from the kitchen. As I lay in bed, I remembered Ecclesiastes
that chasing after the stuff of the world is chasing after the wind. Then I remembered 1 Timothy 6:6, that
godliness with contentment is great gain. I resolved anew to let this
Thanksgiving be a day on which my heart would be alive with gratitude and
instead of chasing after earthly things, I would enjoy the journey that God has
given me with the people he has placed in my life.
Monday, October 22, 2012
A Stroll Down the Reformation Hall in the Museum of History
October is a great month.
The weather begins to turn. Harvest decorations come out. We just begin to turn
to the holiday season with anticipation. October is also a special month in the
Lutheran calendar. We celebrate the Reformation. There is a lesson for all of
us in the Reformation story, but first let’s take a stroll through the halls of
history. We will be in the Middle Ages hall, from roughly AD1400 to AD1600.
A quick glance up the hall
reveals it is a great time of intellectual fervor. Big changes are afoot! In
1492, Columbus sails the ocean blue. Leonardo Da Vinci begins painting the
ceiling of the Sistine Chapel in 1508. In the 1530’s, Copernicus’s idea that
the Earth is not the center of the solar system — let alone the universe! —
began to gain currency.
The first picture we encounter
is a corrupted Catholic church. There are still good people in the church, but
the hierarchy has gone really bad. Clerical offices (which meant a good living
at the time) were for sale, as was forgiveness of sin through a certificate,
called an indulgence, which one could buy from the church. Many popes in the
middle ages were known to have mistresses. The Catholic Church severely
punished people who teach against them, including burning heretics at the
stake.
The next picture is of the
political times. The rulers of what is now Germany would like to get out from
under Vatican control, including Vatican taxation. The Turks are beginning
their attempted conquest through Eastern Europe. The Vatican has a formidable
army that could have been sent to Germany were it not for the Turkish threat.
Finally we see a picture of
reformers. The first two are John Wycliffe in England and Jan Hus in Germany,
both of whom were condemned by the church. Then there is a particularly
stubborn monk named Martin Luther who, after years of trying to live a life
worthy of God, discovered in the scriptures that it is God himself who makes
sinners worthy through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Martin
Luther is surrounded by others whose names you might know: Huldrych Zwingli,
John Calvin, King Henry VIII, John Knox, Phillip Melanchthon and many others.
As we look at the detail
near the center of the reformers, we find a document dated October 31, 1517.
This is the document which Martin Luther nailed to the public bulletin board
(the door of the church, in this case) in the university town of Wittenberg. In
this document, Martin Luther called for new debate on the sale of indulgences,
asserting that not only were they not effective in bringing forgiveness, but
they were driving people away from the true forgiveness that God offers repentant sinners in
Christ Jesus. This document sparked heated religious controversy, including
death warrants, that lasted more than fifty years.
Down the hall we begin to
see pictures of new church bodies, including the Lutheran church. The
expression on the faces of the reformers in these pictures is bittersweet
because though the reformation succeeded, their intent was not to break up the
church, but to call the church back to Christ.
The lessons of the Reformation are numerous. Take care with what you come to believe and why — nobody starts out trying to become a heretic. Stick with your convictions. It can be helpful to have powerful friends in high places whose interests dovetail with yours. God is at work. Examine your own life to see if you need a little reformation yourself. Building programs can be big trouble if not kept in perspective. The truth will win out when people are courageous enough to continue to proclaim it in the face of threats (this does not mean that people will not possibly suffer and die in the process). I'm sure there are many more lessons. Perhaps you can share with me what you learn from the Reformation story.
Celebrate Reformation Day
in your life by reading the scriptures (you might try the book of Galatians,
one of Luther’s favorites) and allowing yourself to be pulled into the tender
mercy of God who forgives penitent sinners for Jesus’ sake.
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